I’ve been wanting to feature guest posts on the blog for a while, and the opportunity presented itself during a conversation with my homie/barber Eric. We were talking about the possibility of guys and gals truly being friends- nothing more, nothing less- and it inspired him to write this. Enjoy Eric’s first post and let him know what you think!
There’s one thing that will never seem to be accepted: a man and a woman having a platonic relationship. You might not have realized it, but here are a few of the various friends that may be in your inner-circle.
THE OPPORTUNIST
This friend is like a lion patiently waiting for the right moment to pounce on his/her prey. This friend would do damn near any and everything to please you so beware, these people are very sneaky.
Example 1: They may be the one attempting to date you for financial gain.
Example 2: They could be attempting to be with your for popularity/higher social status.
Example 3: They’re possibly waiting for you to break up with your current girlfriend/boyfriend, hoping for the rebound.
The opportunist plays the seemingly nice and understanding role, although they have underlying intentions of being more than friends. These situations can happen a lot, so be cautious.
THE COUNTERFEIT
These friendships appear forced because the feelings aren’t mutual. Another example is a mutual friend that you have to be nice to in order to avoid any awkwardness. They are the friend you smile and shake hands with, and then immediately after reach for your hand sanitizer.
THE HOMIE
Next we have the true, legit friend. They are a person that may be very beautiful or handsome, but you two only share a friendship. It’s very rare to find, but some opposite sex friendships actually exist. It’s possible for both people to be on the same level. Assumptions occur when people see two attractive people walking together and laughing. They believe that they must be together.
THE POTENTIAL
Now here comes the curveball. The potential is a friend that you enjoy being around. They also get to know you on a more personal level. Perhaps this person is experiencing something rough, or maybe the two of you have great conversation. Sometimes learning more about a person can spark some sort of interest. This could be one of those friendships that become 60-year marriages like those chick flicks.
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Personally I think a man and a woman can be lifelong friends. It may take a lot of practice and failed attempts but it can happen. So how many friends of the opposite sex do you have? Yeah, think about it.
Keep it Classic,
Eric
